Get Off My Back
Dear Jen,
There is a person that keeps writing to me who read my personal
ad. When I looked back at theirs, I didn’t really like what I
saw and don’t think there is any chance that we would be a good
match. How can I get them to leave me alone without being a
total jerk.
Signed, Sick of It
Dear Sick of It,
You could also do it directly. Just tell this person that you do
not feel that there is a connection between the two of you and
that you would just appreciate it if they moved on to find
someone who could love them. You can do this nicely. You aren’t
a jerk if you are honest with tact. If that doesn’t work, I
don’t know which online dating service you joined, but if you
check their FAQs or ask their customer service, there is
possibly a way to completely block that person from writing you.
Many of the online services have this capability. Good luck!
Hopefully the right person will come along for you soon.
Good luck to you on your quest for love.
